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[Damien Obsidius]

firstly, i wanana be serious in this stopic, i really need some matureness here, i need yall help, so no spam or making me look stupid, okay?

then, IAM BACK! i was on camp with baout 40 othere ppl my age for a week, and now im back!

and now, the sirious part. i Got myself a girl. and not just one, but my first girlfriend, my first great love, myt first kiss, my first kiss with tongue.

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weird link kindof, first some guy shows up then a pic with a lot of girls; shes third from the left in that one. ))

And then she broke me. she cut our connection, she didnt want to be my girlfriend anymore. i felt more for her than she felt for me, and she couldnt hold on to the relationship just to give me hope. I understand that, and still it devastated me, it made me sick. and i really need the help of your guys on this. i want you all foer one time to be understanding and mature, and help me witht his, because i dont know what to do, how to handle this. i still love her, a lot, and she still feels for me, but just not enough.
I want to win her back for me, but just dont know how, i already sent her an email about how much i klove her, that its not her fault, that i dont blame her, and that i want us to been on speaking terms. but what next? i just dont knwo what to do.

i really need your guys this stime, not in the ineternet, not in games, but in life, and in love. help me, please

and sorry for the spelling mistakers, i was crying while typing this

[Lord of Hordes]

Adolescent boys always have a hard time with the first girlfriend. The best thing to do is just be a man, and forget about her. The whole thing should be a learning experience. Set your sights higher, and try to focus on a new girl. Then set your sights to take that next relationship to the next step. Do NOT fear rejection. NEVER be afraid to be rejected by a girl. ALWAYS visualize where you want to be in the relationship, and your mind will take care of the rest. See yourself after the fact, not how your going to get to that point. The end justifies the means.

Something else to consider is this: You were only together for a week...it's not the end of the world. Man, if you only knew how many available women there are out there, you can pretty much pick and choose the one you want. This one sounds like she's kind-of shallow, seeing as how she wasn't willing to try any longer than a week. Besides, one week isn't really long enough for two people to develop the bonds of an actual loving relationship.

[jatrix]

One week?
And she kissed you with tongue already?
According to what I've seen in my lovelifes, that kind of girl is shallow and desperate. As LoH said, set your sights higher. With a girl, just start with the dating. Don't kiss her for about a week, if you have to. Just, be casual. Don't act all shaky when you're together with her.

[Zeo 3 4 3]

Heres one way to look at it, she misssout out on you, not the other way around, she wont get to be with you and shes missing out, i mean look at all of us, we think your awesome, if anything she should be the one crying, i mean your probelly better of the relationship if she kissed you that early

[Damien Obsidius]

thanks you guys, really , for all the votes of support, but bitching my ex-girlfriend isnt gonna help. i mean its camp, thing just go faster then, and therte aare more afactors, naming puberty, and that she was in menstruation...damn im defending her now...she just emailed me that she indeed cried too, and that that kiss(and the second one lol) were her first too, and very special to her also...my feelings for her are idd shrinking, im even looking at ohter girls a little bit now....i think this one just needs time to heal.